Comments on: Love VS Lust Discernment Problems? http://www.dlkeur.com/dlkeur-blog/2010/05/20/love-vs-lust-discernment-problems/ artist, webmaster and website designer, author/novelist Thu, 07 Jul 2011 13:49:04 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: dlkeur http://www.dlkeur.com/dlkeur-blog/2010/05/20/love-vs-lust-discernment-problems/comment-page-1/#comment-202 dlkeur Fri, 21 May 2010 03:08:56 +0000 http://www.dlkeur.com/dlkeur-blog/?p=265#comment-202 Good for you, Rachel, and hear this woman, please, ladies...and gents. Good for you, Rachel, and hear this woman, please, ladies…and gents.

]]> By: Rachel Zellers http://www.dlkeur.com/dlkeur-blog/2010/05/20/love-vs-lust-discernment-problems/comment-page-1/#comment-201 Rachel Zellers Fri, 21 May 2010 02:07:24 +0000 http://www.dlkeur.com/dlkeur-blog/?p=265#comment-201 Learned the hard way that making excuses as people change (in ways that are harmful and abusive) is the single worst thing you can do to yourself. It will now take years to undo all that. That's my advice to younger women. The signs are all there at the beginning...don't excuse them away. They'll only get worse. Took me thirty years to find REAL love. The kind they write sonnets about. :) When it's real it builds you up...it doesn't tear at who you are. Learned the hard way that making excuses as people change (in ways that are harmful and abusive) is the single worst thing you can do to yourself. It will now take years to undo all that. That’s my advice to younger women. The signs are all there at the beginning…don’t excuse them away. They’ll only get worse.

Took me thirty years to find REAL love. The kind they write sonnets about. :) When it’s real it builds you up…it doesn’t tear at who you are.

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